Silently Seduced: When Parents Make Their Children Partners (Revised, Updated)When a parent singles out a child for special privileges and attention, that child is often unaware that the relationship is unhealthy even incestuous. As adults, these children struggle to feel validated, because while they have not been directly abused, they feel a sense of violation and crossed boundaries usually done in the name of 'love' and 'caring.' The parent's love feels more confining than freeing, more demanding than giving, more intrusive